Excellence in your dresscode (part 1 of 6) 12/05/2012
Part 1 of 6 in series of Excellency in: Dress code, quiet time, time management, money, Evangelism, Attitude to work, school & university. 1) You are Gods temple so dress like it Ok my Dear so anyone that has made Jesus her Lord is saying that he is Lord over her life, job, money, home, lifestyle, attitude and dress code amongst a number of other things right? When God is your main man, you are accepting the treasured role as a royal priesthood of him as it points out in 1 Peter 2:9-10 “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. 10 Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.” So my sister what you need to understand from this perfect piece of scripture is that you are “God’s special possession” and that you are now part of his “wonderful light.” So dressing with too short skirts and too much cleavage is not cute and definitely not Godly. You tummy should not be on show when you go to church or anywhere else. Also wearing jeans that look like they are painted on may look cute on a music video but for a woman of God I would say that is a big no-no. In life you need to have balance, you need to look feminine and also a Godly woman but not overtly sexual so you look like you out on the rpowl for men, you are precious so make sure you outfits are an honour to God and his message that lives in you. Look cute for sure, but make sure your outfit is not talking louder that the message God has laid in your heart which is to share your faith daily. Have a good balance. Remember my dear you are in the world but you are not of this world. You here for a short time and you have a massive job to do which is outlined in Matthew 28:18-20 where you need to be making disciples. So your focus must be on getting people to Christ not only on how cute your outfit is. Now don’t get me wrong I don’t want you looking like slobs or manly, because you just moving to the extreme now showing the rebellion in your heart. I just want to advise you that you my dear that you are a special treasure to God and your dressing needs to reflect the precious gift of the holy spirit that Gods has allowed to indwell in you. You are special my sister so please make sure that your dressing is of a woman who is fit to be a Queen. You are special because God chose you to be his daughter, not your neighbour, your friend at the job or the girl at the shops, but you. You are Gods precious jewel and your dressing needs to reflect that you my dear are Gods temple as it points out in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honour God with your bodies. You are Gods temple, so dress like it 
This scripture really inspires me and reminds me that I am holding the temple of God and it needs to look like it and that I am a priceless tool in Gods kingdom and that you dress code needs to truly honour the price Jesus paid with his life so that you can live. You also need to be modest in the way you present yourself as it says in 1 timothy 2:9-10 I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, 10 but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God. So let me explain this scripture, when you are out and about sharing your faith, encouraging people and being the fantastic woman of God. Those who you speak to should be concentrating on the inspiring message you are delivering and not how banging your nails are or the rocking pair of heels you got on. You go to church to meet God and not men, so the attention needs to be on the God in you rather then the cute skirt you got on. You should be radiant from the awesome quiet you had that morning not just from the blusher you puting on your checks. Sis get the balance right, your beauty must come from your inner beauty not only from how you dress as it says in this scripture in 1 Peter 3:3-5. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewellery or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. Now remember I agree that all women should look and feel great, but that must not be your loudest message, what you say should have more impact than that what you are wearing. Let your dressing reflect your heart for God and not your love for a great pair of jeans only. Just always remember when you get ready in the mornings. Is it suitable for where I am going, is it my size, is it good for the weather, can I bend in this outfit without showing the whole world my crown jewels. If any of these basic questions are a no then take it off and get something more appropriate on. 1) Just because it fits doesn’t mean it is Godly or good for you to wear my dear Be wise in what you put on daily, you my dear are God’s Ambassador for his message. Have you ever seen Diplomats and Ambassadors look scruffy when they are out and about in their sleek cars and shaking hands with foreign gentry looking a hot mess? No then neither should you because you serve a bigger king than a worldly Government you serve God and you need to dress like that daily. OK I know it is cool to have a casual day but this should not be you routine uniform of tracksuit and trainers, no matter how comfy they feel. So when I say be wise like in Proverbs 4:6 it states Just because it fits you doesn't mean you should wear it Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you. Always make sure that the skirt you are wearing is not too short and tight even if you do have a great pair of legs, showing your outer beauty to win people is no longer your strongest tool, your heart is my sister. So something that you used to wear when you are 16 and now you are a woman in your 20’s and 30s will not cut it. . Too tight jeans, see through tops all have a place and it is not in church, crank for your husband at home on date night though my dear. I love this scripture Romans 12:1-2 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. This scripture really encourages me and reminds me that we can look cute and pretty without having to look like a prono star. You are a princess and not the prostitute in Proverbs 7:10 then came out a woman to meet him dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent. Also my dear I am not saying look like a boring dull woman in bland colours and textures, I am just saying make sure that your inner beauty is banging and not just the blusher on your cheeks and that new bag. Don’t be extreme either in your dress code and start wearing a full on burka and a bed sheet, that’s not cute and will merely show the rebellion in your heart. Always seek advice on what you are wearing if you cannot bend, sit or stretch without showing the whole world your crown jewels, then please my dear do not wear it. Always be wise in what you wear, men sin with their eyes, so one look at your legs in a short skirt when communion is coming around can cause a brother to sin. Also for sisters, they sin in their hearts, so your dress code can cause jealousy in another sister who has body anxiety issues. Don’t look dull and boring look like the Queen that God died for you to be. Your awesome. It might be an idea to review your wardrobe today with a friend and ask them to help you review any items that I did might not really reflect you as the true Godly woman that you are. I had to get rid old raving tops, dress, friends and mindsets when I became a true disciple of Christ. It is actually very therapeutic and freeing. Try it and let me know how it went. In conclusion I just want to say always keep yourself and your sisters in check, be a great watchman as it states in Ezekiel 33:1-6. If you naturally gifted up top, then please wear a scarf that can guard your purity and prevent other from sinning if they got an eyeful of your cleavage. When you move around always check your clothes are still in place. You rock; I love you and please continue to be the Queens that Jesus died for you to be. I would love to hear what you think, hit me up on info@soyaras.co.uk Add Comment Get your mind right and your heart too. This is often easier said than done, but it can be done. When your mind starts to float into impure things like hugging, kissing a guy or worse going all the way then every one of those thoughts take a diamond out of your precious jewels bag. Did you mind just float back to a past experience…erm...that will cost you 5 jewels please. Not a good look when you supposed to share the full 100 bagful of diamonds with your husband only on your precious wedding night. The physical intimacy of a married couple is a witness to the spiritual joining on their souls before God. The physical activity is a reinforcement of their love which s actually from God. The physical activity between husband and wife is the private connection of their public declaration of love. Sex is the physical story that God has joined these two people together in mind body and soul. That is why physical intimacy should only be done in a marriage. When boyfriend and girlfriend get together, they are saying that they are joined but really, their sprits do not know each other because they have not been untied before God.  Wild Worldly chicks say… Living together is cool and that it is just like a real marriage because they share the entire household responsibly, she says that her boyfriend is her next of kin; they have joint bank accounts etc. There is just one small problem; God does not know who the two of you are. The wild chick says that having impure thoughts just shows that you have a strong sex drive and at least you will not be bored in bed with your boyfriend right? Wild worldly chick thinks that watching pornography (porneia is the Greek word for immorality) is a way of educating herself so that she can please her boyfriend…she is wrong her heart should be to please God.  Wise women say... So here are some handy tips to keep you diamond bag full and the impure thoughts that often lead to the activity away. Impure translated MEANS “UNCLEAN”, do alternative activities like singing, reciting some Scripture, put the washing one, call a friend. The wise woman knows that to maintain her bag full of diamonds she needs to get rid or avoid things that will pull her mind back to impure thoughts. The wise woman knows that she needs to kill off anything that links to that way of death: sexual promiscuity, impurity, lust, doing whatever you feel like whenever you feel like it, and grabbing whatever attracts your fancy. That’s a life shaped by things and feelings instead of by God. Col 3:5 (MSG). Wise woman also understand that this world is not her home and not to get too cosy with the world and its behaviour and that it is not acceptable to be a walking talking tease as in 1 Peter 2:11 Conclusion God wants Christians to experience great sex but not in the impure manner which the world tells us daily how they think it should be done. God knows how great it is because he created it. So this is part 3 of 3 read the rest on www.soyaras.co.uk Now ladies your mind is a powerful thing right? It can let you study and pass that exam you were you were cramming for at university. It can also take you into dreamland of dream job, man, holiday, hairstyle…I can go on. One more thing your mind as directed by the Holy Spirit can help you guard your purity. The battle of sin first starts in the mind. That is why in Ephesians 6:10-18 we need to put on the helmet of salvation so that we can distinguish what is good or bad thoughts that we need our minds to focus on to get us closer to God and his will over our lives. Every time you think up a sexually impure thought, remember a past activity, do an impure act a diamond or two gets taken out of your jewel bag. 
Wild Worldly chicks say purity cannot be lost because it was given to be shared... Now these chicks are dangerous, mark my words Sis. They believe and live their life in such a way that it is almost like they are doing charity work with their bodies by sleeping, entertaining and smooching with all the men in their phone book. Wild worldly woman say it is cool to live with your boyfriend even though she ain’t married, everyone does it now. I just want to point out to the wild worldly chick that as easy as it was to move it is just as easy to get kicked out. The Wild worldly chicks just chucked away about 30 or so diamonds with all the men in her little black book so far. They live by what they see, feel, see and hear and if it don’t look right or feel right then they may just call out switch and get a new man if they do not line up their ideal and always looking for the next best thing. There is no best thing in the world, so wild worldly chicks will keep searching for the next best man and actually never find it because their eyes are directed in the wrong area, they should face up. I know this I was one of them. Now they might think that their body is theirs and that they are free to do whatever they want to do right? Or so they think according to the magazines and celebrities swap partners…more so than husbands quicker than they change their shirt. The wild worldly chick’s role model of how to behave sexually in the world is what she sees. So if she sees footballer’s wives having affairs with other footballers it starts to become the norm. When the wild worldly chick sees couples have a major million dollars wedding with the magazine spread of the happy day and then days, months and often years later the same magazine that covered the wedding is now got the painful divorce as front-page news 
Wise women say... That she has been on that wild world chicks journey before and has or is currently facing some of the issues she may have struggled with but her response is different, her response if Godly. Wise women know that jumping from a man to man and holding her breath for that day he might drop to one knee, be her knight in shining armour and propose with a big bling ring is no way to live her life. Wise women know the only man they need to wait on is God. The wise woman knows that sexual sins are something different form all other sins as it says in 1 Corinthians 6:18. Wise women know that they need to honour God with their mind and bodies and not have even a hint of sexual immorality. The wise woman like the wild worldly chick has been there and worn the t-shirts, but there is a sharp difference. The wise woman has repented of her sins and stopped participating in the sexual sin because she saw that her bags of diamonds was almost on empty and studied the bible and saw what Gods visions for her sexuality was. Wise woman knows that her bag of diamonds is to be shared on her wedding night and marriage life with her husband where she will honour her marriage as guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between husband and wife as it says in Hebrews 13:4 This is part 2 of a 3 part series check here www.soy What I love about Ruth 23/02/2012
Who was Ruth? Ruth was the loyal daughter in law of Naomi and you can read all about her in Ruth. One of the shortest books in the bible but oh so powerful. The story of Ruth outlines some of the key qualities that us as great women of God need to imitate on a daily basis not matter the cost. It outlines Ruth’s journey from the pain of losing her Father in law and husband then to trusting God with all her heart. Receiving the blessing of trust in God’s plan even when you do not know where it will take you and being blessed by being part of Jesus genealogy. What were some of her greatest qualities: loyalty, hard work, and faith in God, patience, love, humble and giving 1) Loyalty Ruth was a Moab woman and was married to Naomi son, who died. Ruth showed qualities of loyalty to Naomi by sticking by her side and moving from Moab onto Bethlehem with Naomi (Ruth 1:18-19). Ruth had the opportunity to leave and go back to her own people but she said that she would stick to Naomi and the true God (Ruth 1:16). Now in my own mind if I was in Ruth position with no husband and just me and my old mother in law I would most definitely be tempted to go back to my people. But Ruth shows that when you are loyal and follow the truth that God will bless it. Ruth is a prime example of why you need good strong friendship circles in your life because with Ruth by her side Naomi would have just remained and embittered woman rather than finding a new fresh joy in her spirit when Ruth married Boaz and birthed Obed , father of Jesse who was the father of David which is part of Jesus genealogy 
1) Handwork Ruth was a hard worker and was willing to do whatever it took to provide for herself and Naomi (Ruth 2:2). Ruth was blessed for her hardwork ethic by Boaz because he told her he would protect her , gave her water (Ruth 2:8-9). Boaz also gave her special treatment by allowing his workers to leave some extra bits of wheat for her to pick up (Ruth 2:15-16). Ruth’s faith was truly in her deeds because she left what she knew and worked in a field where she knew no one, the one thing she knew for sure that she loved and trusted in God. 2) Faith in God God never leaves us. Ruth is an example of putting her whole heart and faith and trust in God and making the right choice and being blessed for it (Ruth 2:12). Ruth could have scarpered and left Naomi when her husband died and looked for a new man, but the only man Ruth was interested in seeking first was God (Ruth 1:17). God then blessed Ruth for her loyalty to Him and for supporting Naomi and blessed her by her marriage to Boaz. I am sure Ruth didn’t have a clue what twists and turns her life would take when she journeyed with Naomi form Moab to Bethlehem but what she did know that she could trust in God and that He had a plan, even when she was fearful or unsure that God was sure. This really helps me to think am I trusting God in the same level as Ruth or can I do better? 
Conclusion Ruth to me means a woman of great loyalty because with Ruth, Naomi would have definitely crumbled and ended up being a bitter old woman. Ruth was loyal to the end for Naomi even when she didn’t really need to be. Ruth was a hard worker in all areas of her life and she encourages me to make sure that I am putting in 100% effort every day at work, for God in my quiet time, basically in all areas of my life. Ruth shows that hardwork, having an unfailing trust in God will always be blessed. It may be a rough road to journey through and a massive struggle at times but it is worth for the struggle because God rewards those who love and trust in Him. Purity in an impure world (PART 1 of 3) 06/02/2012
A comparison of purity and impurity as seen through the eyes of a wise woman of God vs. a wild chick of the world. So Ladies let’s face it, sex and impurity is everywhere and it can often be a struggle to remain pure of heart, mind, body and spirit when the advert for your perfume is a guy and woman almost getting it on in the TV advert or the latest hair dye has an over attractive woman flicking her hair to and fro with not much clothes on…and this is just to sell hair dye. You hear kids talking about it on the bus; it is on billboards, on the radio, magazines, if you mistype a website address you get pulled into it. Sex and impurity is all over the TV and at work, school or college. Impure teasers of sex are everywhere ….aaaaarghhhhhhh. Any intimacy, sexual contact before marriage is against Gods will for you ladies. God wants you to “honour marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex.” Hebrews 13:4 (Message version). So how do you remain a wise woman of God and not fall into the trap of the wild chick of the world even with all of these tricks of Satan to trap us into sin? 
1) What is sexual purity and impurity? Purity is like a bag full of precious diamonds (because you know diamonds are a girl’s best friend right?), let’s say you get a bag full of 100 precious diamonds when you are born. This bag of diamonds represents purity and the onus is on you to keep this bag closed and not spill or lose or share any diamonds until your wedding night if you are blessed with a husband or keep the diamonds protected until that special day when you meet your eternal husband Jesus Christ. Wild worldly chicks say purity is... Just a bag of diamonds that are for everyone to see and share how beautiful they are. The only thing that is pure in this ladies life are the gold necklace and matching earrings she rocks. The wild world chick says I am going to be wearing these beautiful gems all day everyday and giving away, a couple of diamonds to the next cutest guy because maybe, he just maybe the one right? Wrong, and for that cheap trick Wild Worldly chick you lose five diamonds (one for the lustful thoughts, one for the kiss, 1 for the touch and 2 because you listened to your ex-boyfriend when he suggested the “let’s get closer night”). To the wild world chick it is nothing when “she threw her arms around him and kissed…” Proverbs 7:13 because every one of her friends are doing it, she always kissed her last boyfriend and you cannot even sit on the train without a couple smooching away. To add further the wild world chick sees nothing in having her life full of some or all of the sins listed in Galatians 5:19“sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery…” The wildly worldly chick sees it as fashionable to be like the ladies on the music videos who have nothing on but a piece of string to cover their assets and a big smile and an even bigger weave, that is her aim because she sees this as her role model for how a woman must behave and conduct herself sexually. The wild worldly chick does not understand that flaunting her sexuality, and also the kissing, touching and any sexual contact with her boyfriend is not good or best for her even if everyone else is doing it. The wild worldly chick does not know, understand or accept that it is actually sinful. It is highlighted in 1 Corinthians 6:9 “…those who use and abuse each other , use and abuse sex, use and abuse the earth and everything in it, don’t qualify as citizens in God’s kingdom.” The wild worldly chick does not know, understand, or want to believe that she is a slave to sin as John 8:34 outlines that “everyone who sins is slave to sin.”The wild worldly chick has no way of getting a refund on these diamonds. Wise women say purity is... A wise woman who is living according to the word of God has a way of getting a refund on the fallen diamonds…it is through God’s grace and mercy for the forgiveness of her sins and repenting by turning away from the life of impurity and sexual sin. The wise woman is not spilling the diamonds and then constantly asking for a refund or being so prideful and not asking for a refund like some wild chicks of the world, no! The wise woman understands how precious this bag of diamonds is because it points out in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 that “it is God’s will that you should be sanctified that you should avoid sexual immorality: that each of you should learn how to control his own body.” In the past before she knew God, the wise woman may have spilled a whole load of diamonds, but she has put that life totally behind her now she has a new man on the scene…he is incredible… God. So the wise woman unlike the wild chick has a different focus when she is asked on a date by a brother. The wild worldly chick is checking him out physically, wondering if he looks strong, what he can do for her and how this can be the best night of her life. The wise woman has a different focus she is looking to get to know the brother’s heart, find out what are his interests, how does he want to serve God, and what are his dreams in life. The wise woman is truly living out Colossian 3:5 where it states “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature; sexual immorality, impurity, lust…” The wise woman knows that even though there are loads of good looking men out there and that he may look nice and strong, but she knows that men of the world may be strong enough to take her to hell, and that’s is a place she is not interested in visiting. The wise woman knows that her diamond bag is a gift from God to be shared between her and her husband if she is blessed with one in the future. This is part 1 of 3, read the whole series on www.soyaras.co.uk. Millionaire Mind Intensive Course by T Harv Eker Do you agree with any of the statements below?
If you said yes to any of the questions above my dear then trust me, you need to get on the next Millionaire Mind Intensive course. The thing that is affecting your earning capacity is…YOU. Trust me the Millionaire Mind Intensive Course by T Harv Eker has helped re- train my mind from being paid for my time to being paid for my performance. This is how wealthy people operate and if you want to break the chains of the 9-5 and do something beneficial like rebuild homes in devastated countries, travel the world, write a book, you get my point right? Just do the course. The Trainers The trainers were Adam-How-you-doin-Markel, a smart phenomenal business entrepreneur from New York, oh yes did I forget to mention that he is an Attorney too. This man shared so much knowledge I just wanted to call him my big brother all weekend. Then there was Marcus de Maria, now this guy is a walking business book, when you are near him you need to have a pen to jot down all the tips. The king of motivation was Mac Aitram he kept us in high energy and dancing our socks off when the energy levels were low. These guys are doing their thing, the question is are you? Here is a snapshot of what I learnt over the course: Money Jars/Accounts Money Jars/accounts are a technique to separate your money into different accounts for specific purposes…and that is all I am going to say, you need to go on the course to find out more. I have implemented this system today. What is your money doing? Breaking Arrows on my Collar bone I broke an arrow with my collarbone to combat fears in life on this course. Now this sounds mad, at first you think these people are nuts and get me out of here and I ain’t breaking no arrow on my collarbone. Imagine, if you can break an arrow with your collarbone, you can do and be anything in life. You need to go on the course to experience this one, it is so empowering. Millionaire status here I come. VIP status When you go to the next course, try and get the money together for VIP tickets, it is well worth the extra splash. We got a goodie bag full of 10 DVDs which cover the "Secret Psychology of Wealth", copy of the book “Secrets of a Millionaire mind by T Harv Eker”, power networking session, free EBook on How to Get Hard Wired for Success, workbook with all the notes in and a dedicated Q& A session with the trainers, oh and you get priority check in too, good or good? Why you need to be there? It was a fantastic 3 days filled with information and motivation that I could be a Millionaire because the power is all in the mind. The room was filled with 1200 people all with the same desire to earn more in less time than a J.O.B (you know this means just over broke right?) and do something to add value to this world. Can you imagine having this amount of people to network with and swap business cards? I got a sore throat and need to order new cards. My phone has not stopped ringing and I might need to hire someone to read my emails for me because the amount of people in the room who I connected with and want to do business with is beyond crazy. If you don’t get on the next course you must be happy with the income that you are on or worse still you are “comfortable”….(horrible word because it stops you from progressing). Go on the course, it’s time to get uncomfortable and grow into the millionaire that you know you can be and start making those dreams in your heart happen. You are amazing and gimme a high 5 when I next see you. Let me know what you think of this blog by adding your comments below or emailing me on info@soyaras.co.uk Love Always Soyaras Women of UK Hip Hop 18/07/2011
So I left the office and hopped on the tube to the Southbank centre at Waterloo to see the “Supreme Ladies of Britain” show. This was a night showcasing the numerous talented UK female hip-hop artists. Now I must admit I did not have much knowledge of the UK scene because it is so dominated by the heavy weight USA presence Nikki Minaj’s and Little Kim’s of the industry. So I was a little sceptical that it would be a bunch of nobodies running around trying to talk yanky. I was so wrong, it was a night full of talented spoken word artists, rappers, beat box champion, and dancers who could pop, lock and break like no other human body can.  The night started with a dance battle like no other and the winner could get a £200 gift and some choreography lessons. Ok so if you don’t know what battle dancing is, let me break it down for you. It is like an argument but just through dance and only the best dancer will win the round and move to the next stage. Kinda like X Factor but these people all really did have talent. Through each round, the contestants would hug and then battle dance and then whoever won would be encouraged by the one who lost. Totally inspiring it was sisterhood at its best, trust me. There was popping locking, rocking and straight up hip-hop dancing. I felt like I was on an MTV music video the amount of moves that were being thrown done on the stage.  Lady Lykez Ok so the dancers were fabulous, but let me introduce to you someone who I would have to call the new Missy Elliot/MC Lyte/Salt and Pepa UK artist called Lady Lykez. Now this artist has some killer lines and had me bobbing my head. Lykez has a song about embracing your figure, whatever your size is and loving it and never being ashamed of who you are or what you are about. This message was in her funky and funny track called “I love my butt.” Oh my gosh before I go there was this beat box girl who was able to drop the best sounds and you actually felt that it was music playing. A great fun night out for all who believe women need to encourage each other and strengthen our sisterhood a whole lot more. Let me know what you think of this blog by adding your comments below or emailing me on info@soyaras.co.uk I just spent a power inspired weekend with Tony Robbins, Alan Sugar, Richard Branson, T.Harv Eker and more at the National Achievers Conference. It was a room with 8000 people on charge with big energy to make big changes in their lives through fantastic business and entrepreneurs’ skills. So many like-minded people in one room it was electric. I race for my seat in the front row , the music starts, every one gets up and we dance, sing, high five and then keenly anticipate the entrance of the first speaker; Tony Robbins. Now this man is a giant of a man filled with so much energy and most of all the skills to push me on further , harder and faster in my goal to make a great difference into this world while becoming a millionaire…no sorry I meant billionaire. I got to high five Tony when he ran up and down the passageways. This man is magical. If you need motivation, you need 1 minute with Tony and it will change your life forever. Feel the fear and do it anyway. Make sure you go to the next one; it will change your life forever. I am so on fire to make a great difference in this world, more than ever before through my entrepreneur skills and some damn hard work. Are you ready to forget the 9-5 rat race and live the life of your dreams so you can do more for others and be a world changer?  Alan Sugar was raw, and directly to the point when he said people who want to start a business need to “get real.” Add something of value to the business world and get off your a** and do something. Richard Branson came on with two virgin airlines hostesses draped on each arm. I love this dude, he makes business fun and exciting and he is so humble. Screw it let’s do it. Whatever your business idea is just do it. The one thing that I took from this whole power weekend is to learn something and then do something immediately. Tomorrow is not promised, your mind brought to where you are today and it can take you to so much more. Here are the top quotes from some of the speakers at the National achievers Conference: Tony Robbins: Take advantage of now, use big energy to make big changes in your life. Make your vision your reality. Take immediate action. Greg Secker: Life is a result of how we feel and not what we actually think. Robert G.Allen: Your mind is the greatest money making tool in the world. Blair Singer: Do whatever it takes to win, just do not quit. Alan Sugar: If you want something in life, you must go and get it for yourself. T.Harv Eker: Change your money blueprint and you change your life. Rich people play the money game to win, poor people play not to lose. Adam Ginsberg: Everything you own whether old, new, broken, or perfect has a cash value, if you not using it then sell it. Andy Harrington: why try so hard to fit in when you were born to be unique Simon Coulson: Stand out, add value and be the expert. Kevin Green: Success is the journey, not the destination Tom Hua: Learn and do Kerwin Rae: Do not quit and have a single-minded obsession to do it John Lee: It’s not about the money it is what the money will do for you and others that you care about. Joseph McClendon: Life is exactly what you dare to make it. Richard Branson: have a genuine interest in people; create things to make a real difference in people’s lives. Have fun and love what you do and always seek out a new challenge. Learn from failures and then teach others  My next move To make a million pounds then do speaking events, books and training on how to make a million and be one powerful woman giving this talk at the next National Achievers Conference and more events similar to this. I am also attending T.Harv Eker's Millionaire mindset intensive programme in September to change my money blueprint. Then I am developing my property portfolio by attending a course with Wealth Dragons where I am buying property with no money, no deposit and no mortgage. You want to know more then get on the next course with Wealth Dragons. Hold me to this and I will hold you to your next business ideas and dreams. Email me to find out how I am doing on my success journey to make my first millions. info@soyaras.co.uk Standing up when all falls down 13/06/2011
How to stay uplifted when life knocks you down Some practical tips on how to stay positive during difficult times in life. Bad news often comes in the night time and will often be on your mind for the whole day right? Here are some useful tips that have helped me to stay positive during the difficult times that life throws at me.
Stay positive and remember you are still standing even when it all falls down. Love to hear what you think of the blog contact me on the details below. Email: info@soyaras.co.uk Web: www.soyaras.co.uk How is the love life…needs improving? It might help to Act Like a Lady and Think like a Man. 23/05/2011
Ok so my love life has not been that great recently, but I am always trying to improve it. Let me tell you if you are in love, looking for love or just trying to improve your love life you need to read Steve Harvey’s book Act like a lady think like a man. It has changed my approach to dating and love big time. Here are 5 tips from the book, there are loads more but I suggest you get a copy. 1) How men approach love is different from women. Men concentrate on: Who they are, What they do,How much they get paid Ladies once all of these three things are in order in a man’s life then and only then will he be entertaining love on a serious level. If you meet a man that has not achieved these three criteria in his life then don’t be surprised if he is not rushing you down the aisle.  2) If a man loves or is really “in-like” with you he will give you a title. Ok so ladies listen really hard when your man or the guy you are currently seeing introduces you to his friends and family. If he says, “this is my girlfriend Lisa”, then he has given you a title and he sees you as his and has put a claim on you. He is a keeper. My Dear if he just introduces you by your name, then get your bag and go, he don’t see you in the long term no matter what he says or does for you. 3) A man will provide if he loves you Once a man has claimed you, he will provide for you. The more he can provide e.g. sort your car out, pay your bills; help you in all areas of your life, the more alive he will feel. Every appreciation you show him for providing for you boosts his prowess, trust me. Has your man ever washed your car for you and you give him a big hugs and kiss and murmur “thank you baby” his chest will inflate so high and he won’t be able to walk out the front door and will see that he is adding value to your life. That’s what men love.  4) What men need? Ladies this is really simple, men need four main things from a woman: support from you e.g. you help him sort out his tax return or practice a talk he might have to give, loyalty, sex and food. If you are meeting all of these areas then your short-term relationships might just turn into something long-term my dear. 5) Men are fixers So ladies you know when you pour out your problems to your man like “the woman at work had the same hair style or top on as you as you”, your man will tell you to change your hairstyle or stop wearing the top. Unless you want him to fix the problem, then keep your mouth shut. Men want to hear the problem and fix it one time. Men are not like ladies who want to mull over an issue, think about it and digest it and keep going over the same point. Ladies tell your man things you want him to fix, anything else tell your girls. There are loads more tips in Steve’s book Act like a lady think like a man. You should grab yourself a copy. He also has another fantastic book out too Straight Talk, No Chaser. Let me know how your love life improves. Kisses until next time. Soyara Email: info@soyaras.co.uk Web: www.soyaras.co.uk |  Soyara
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