How is the love life…needs improving? It might help to Act Like a Lady and Think like a Man. 23/05/2011
Ok so my love life has not been that great recently, but I am always trying to improve it. Let me tell you if you are in love, looking for love or just trying to improve your love life you need to read Steve Harvey’s book Act like a lady think like a man. It has changed my approach to dating and love big time. Here are 5 tips from the book, there are loads more but I suggest you get a copy. 1) How men approach love is different from women. Men concentrate on: Who they are, What they do,How much they get paid Ladies once all of these three things are in order in a man’s life then and only then will he be entertaining love on a serious level. If you meet a man that has not achieved these three criteria in his life then don’t be surprised if he is not rushing you down the aisle.  2) If a man loves or is really “in-like” with you he will give you a title. Ok so ladies listen really hard when your man or the guy you are currently seeing introduces you to his friends and family. If he says, “this is my girlfriend Lisa”, then he has given you a title and he sees you as his and has put a claim on you. He is a keeper. My Dear if he just introduces you by your name, then get your bag and go, he don’t see you in the long term no matter what he says or does for you. 3) A man will provide if he loves you Once a man has claimed you, he will provide for you. The more he can provide e.g. sort your car out, pay your bills; help you in all areas of your life, the more alive he will feel. Every appreciation you show him for providing for you boosts his prowess, trust me. Has your man ever washed your car for you and you give him a big hugs and kiss and murmur “thank you baby” his chest will inflate so high and he won’t be able to walk out the front door and will see that he is adding value to your life. That’s what men love.  4) What men need? Ladies this is really simple, men need four main things from a woman: support from you e.g. you help him sort out his tax return or practice a talk he might have to give, loyalty, sex and food. If you are meeting all of these areas then your short-term relationships might just turn into something long-term my dear. 5) Men are fixers So ladies you know when you pour out your problems to your man like “the woman at work had the same hair style or top on as you as you”, your man will tell you to change your hairstyle or stop wearing the top. Unless you want him to fix the problem, then keep your mouth shut. Men want to hear the problem and fix it one time. Men are not like ladies who want to mull over an issue, think about it and digest it and keep going over the same point. Ladies tell your man things you want him to fix, anything else tell your girls. There are loads more tips in Steve’s book Act like a lady think like a man. You should grab yourself a copy. He also has another fantastic book out too Straight Talk, No Chaser. Let me know how your love life improves. Kisses until next time. Soyara Email: info@soyaras.co.uk Web: www.soyaras.co.uk |  Soyara
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